Focus on today. Capability vs. expectations of people. Morning Coffee Talk

Bottom line; we have to care for ourselves. We have to keep our expectations in check. People change if THEY want to change- not if we try to change them. So we must evaluate our relationships based off of a persons capabilities vs. our expectations of how we want our relationships to be. It ain’t easy. Let me tell you. It takes a lot of work to examine what is instead of how we want things to be. Let’s live our lives TODAY. Not in the future, and not in the past. Today; how can I care for myself? What do my relationships positively bring to my life? Are there relationships that need to be redefined or cut off out of my life? How do I take care of my needs instead of relying so heavily on other people? Idea; get a pet! You can talk to them relentlessly. They have limited expectations for you. Emotionally they make us feel better. They’re loyal and usually not too complicated.
RAK; find one way to support yourself emotionally without relying on someone else. (Adopt a pet?)

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