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So, we're gonna be breaking down a video from 90 Day Fiance when Jay cheated on Ashley. Jay is a dude from another country who came to America, married a white woman and she expects him to be faithful. So we're gonna be breaking down what she did wrong and how you could avoid dating a Jay. Anybody would date a Jay but would you stay with a Jay? That's the question.
**First of all, ladies, if you're the side chick and you're with a dude who's cheating on his woman, don't be texting him late at night. Please.**
When the signs are there and you ignored them, it's because you're living in your own fantasy. You have this idea of a relationship that you want and you believe that he's the only guy that could provide it for you. Ladies, understand this: the good things in life take time. They don't come from other countries. It takes time, you got to be patient and you got to be uncompromising with your values and how you expect people to treat you especially with cheating. You gotta be uncompromising and you gotta have a set of things you will and will not accept from people and you will not change that no matter what. Use it as your guiding system.
You cannot change a cheater. Cheaters don't change, they never do because it's something that they can't control. If you're ready to be in a relationship, you also have to be ready to be alone. It's the same side of a coin, man. That's how you get fooled: when you want it so badly that you're willing to do anything to keep it going. Also, never ever go out or marry somebody who's acting uncertain. Never be with that kind of person--you guys are not on the same page and you guys don't have that kind of chemistry.
Another thing, ladies, never take people's excuses. Just deal with the action itself, simple as that. When people do these kinds of stuff, they'll bring up excuses so don't focus on the words but focus on the action. Words are a smokescreen to distract you from reality.
If a guy's on a dating app, that's cheating. Simple as that. It's kind of like the law, if you didn't kill someone, the act of trying to kill someone and creating a plan is a federal crime and like the law, you got to have things that you will and will not accept even if there's no cheating you gotta know what you consider cheating and no matter what the person says, stick up to it because there's a reason why you consider certain things cheating. It's not about cheating itself, it's all about what you consider cheating and that's that.
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